Magical Memoir Moments

Paying Life Forward: Memoir and Mentorship

When I was twelve years old, my family moved from a farm we rented in Manheim, Penna., to the “home place,” the farm my parents bought from my grandparents. That move, I now recognize, changed my life. I went from being a moderately engaged student trying to fit in with a social crowd to being…

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The Brooklyn Dodgers and The Philadelphia Phillies, a Father/ Child Baseball Memoir

What’s more American than baseball and apple pie? And what game is more archetypal than baseball for the bonding of fathers and their children, especially their sons? Watch the 4-minute video below from my blogger friend Charles K. Hale, and try to imagine why I connect viscerally with Charlie’s story. We are about the same…

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After the Children Drive Away: Memoir in the Form of a Poem

This week I offer you two pictures and one poem.   When the Children Leave Home   The children are no longer children. They live far away. When they leave, so soon, again, I do the vacuuming. I pick up the white fluffy polar bear, take the Pat the Bunny book downstairs where it will wait…

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Simplicity: A Very Short Mennonite Memoir

“The more we have, the less we own.” Meister Eckhart I grew up in a simpler age, the 1950’s. We lived on a 100-acre dairy farm. We were Mennonite. I should know all about simplicity, right? Of course, it’s not that simple. Recently someone asked for advice on how to simplify his life. In turn,…

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A Room of One's Own: How to Be More Creative

It’s Wednesday, June, 27, 2012. 8 a.m. Time to go to the office. Oh wait, I am at the office! I have finally arrived at a place I have fantasized about — a room of my own for writing — and freedom from the 9-5 job world. Much as I loved having a career, I…

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Dancing With Change — A Memoir About Parting

Today is the first day of the last week of taking care of Owen in Brooklyn. As I get ready to walk to Owen’s house, I am filled with gratitude and a little grief. Yesterday I took a walk in the park — Ft. Greene Park — on what might have been our last sunny…

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How to Balance Writing with Facebook, Blogging, and Twitter

While I draft memoir chapters about growing up Mennonite, I am also writing to you, the friends of this blog, and to others on my facebook page and twitter feed. Is it worth it to spend my time this way? Sometimes I wonder. A few weeks ago, I was asked by a friend of this…

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From Fired to Fired Up: Three Waves of Transformation

Did you know that, according to a Gallup Poll, only 32 percent of all employees can say “yes” to this statement: “At work I have the opportunity to do what I do best every day.” Are you one of the 32 percent or one of the 68 percent?   Perhaps you have been excited about…

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Charles R. Hale: New York Storyteller Who Knows How to Polish and Publish Memorable Stories

Meet the most famous Charlie online. If you have never met him before, you’re in for a treat. If you know him well, go ahead and click one more time. He’s the archetypal kid brother, using what he’s got to surprise his older brother. I have watched this video at least five times. I’m in…

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Will You Still Be Sending Me a Valentine When I'm 64? You Bet!

Do love, beauty, and Valentine’s Day belong only to the young? I don’t think so! Like Paul McCartney, I got happy seeing older people in love even when I was very young. Our culture doesn’t celebrate old-age love and beauty. So we have to teach it to ourselves and each other. Here’s a valentine to all…

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